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My road to a new beginning took some unexpected turns. My story begins when I was 11 or 12 years old and had my first taste of beer when working on my uncles farms and continued for the next fifty years! The love and desire of beer was becoming ever more a part of my life the past 5 years as physical impairments and surgeries increased and the pain continued. Drinking made it bearable. Part of my daily routine was deciding where I had to go and what package store I would go by on my way home from work.

Then last year as my wife and I contemplated our yearly vacation to our timeshare on the island of Saint Maarten we thought that it would be a nice change to visit one of the other islands that are part of our timeshare’s package. After talking to various friends and others, we decided on the island of Aruba…

Now for that unexpected turn in the road that led to the end of my dependency on beer. Unbeknownst to me, my wife had heard conversations by a couple of ladies she was sitting with on the beach about their wanting to stop smoking. When one of them mentioned Rhonda Lenair as a person who helps people break their desire to smoke and other dependencies …

Several months went by with my wife surfing the net for information about Rhonda …Then one day after one of my alcohol induced argumentative states I asked her to find out what we needed to do to get an appointment with Rhonda. After several emails back and forth with Barry and eventually a phone call, the appointment was set…

My meeting with Rhonda was a life altering experience that you who have first-hand knowledge can relate to it. I know I am not the first and will not be the last to say ‘That it was as if a light switch was turned off’. That is how dramatic the results were. I now have no desire, need or want to drink alcohol.

I am thankful every day for what initially was a horrible vacation that resulted in the discovery of Rhonda Lenair and her truly remarkable gift and to a wonderful wife who stood by me for these past 36 years. I love you both.

Tom from Massachusetts's Story

Dear Rhonda and Barry:

My son has not had a drink since his healing session - a true miracle! He is physically engaged in his recovery. Thank you for setting this miracle in motion. Thank you once again for helping him reach his happy and healthy true self.
Jennifer, New Hampshire

Hey Barry,
Well, I was looking through your website and wondering how long it's been since Rhonda & you initially helped me with alcohol addiction, when I came across one of my annual updates and it was March of 2000.

Well here it is, March of 2013! OMG! I missed a few (about 6) annuals... I think of you & Rhonda often, but I never think of "not drinking". I don't count the days, or years for that matter: I just carry on with living life, which is hectic. How shocked was I when I realized it has been 13 years since Rhonda helped me.

Over the past several years I've had many challenges and stresses. Career changes (i.e. unemployment) for both myself and my wife, had to sell our house and downsize, more unemployment. I took a job that gave me a 3 hour daily commute. My Mom developed Alzheimer's and suffered awful for about 4 years before passing away 3 years ago this month. I was my Mom's primary caregiver. Almost lost two other family members. Was it stressful, yes. Was I loosing sleep, yes. Did it ever occur to me to have a drink, NO! That is no longer part of me. I just don't think about it. I can't imagine how things would have gone had I been drinking. I'm confident it would not have done anything positive for any of these situations.

It's not all gloom and doom. I have two wonderful grandchildren that I love spending time with. My wife and I went on a cruise last year. Someone said to me that they don't like cruises, "There is nothing to do but drink". Really?? I went on an 8-day cruise and there were tons of things to do. Rock walls, casino (though I'm not a big gambler I did win $50!), pools, restaurants, zip line, stage shows, BINGO, shopping, etc. We have another one departing next month, during which we'll go horseback riding on the beach! I'm caring for my friend's motorcycle while he is deployed to Africa, so I'll be doing as much riding as time permits these next two seasons.

So, I don't count the days or the years. I plug along and deal with what comes up.

Thanks to you, I live life, hectic as it may be. I am truly blessed.

As in years past, please feel free to give my contact information to anyone who would like to talk.

Lots-O-Luv to you both.
Dan M., Winchendon, MA

Hi Barry and Rhonda! I just love seeing your name in my email inbox... it's the most wonderful reminder of the amazing gift that I received from Rhonda.

This past Monday, July 16th marked 6 months since I last consumed alcohol. And I have never felt better physically, emotionally or spiritually! Getting rid of that albatross has allowed me to pursue yoga (something I always wanted to do, but didn't have the energy for), focus more on my family and friends, make time to find a new (and cheaper!) apartment, and put me on the path toward finding a better line of work. And I know this is just the beginning!

I feel like I can do almost anything I set my mind to now. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! You gave me my life back!! I sing Rhonda's praises to anyone who will listen and I will continue to do so as long as I live.

Peace and Love to you both
Emily R., Chicago, IL

Hello Rhonda and Barry!

The Suqs of Aleppo are marvelous and entertaining - I definitely enjoyed shopping here! Syrians are very friendly, and I am enjoying a fantastic visit. I probably would never have visited Syria if I hadn't met Rhonda nearly 15 years ago. It still astonishes me that I have been free of the scourge of alcoholism for nearly 15 years due to Rhonda's powerful healing work.

Love, Norm
Norm M., Belmont, MA


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