Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between ‘self’ and ‘Self(s)’?

‘Self’ is the physical, finite, and individualized. It is separated in a body or form, and governed by time, in life and death phases. ‘Self(s)’ is the non-physical, infinite, non-separated embodiment that is eternal. Self(s) is an infinite macrocosm of intelligence that all finite life that lives is – emits and receives. All finite life represents one part of what’s infinitely and seamlessly whole and are whole within their individualized structures and forms autonomously. Self(s) is omnipresent, omnipotent, indivisible, eternal truth life is and produces separately and as one whole living, moving truth life is. Self(s) is all life complete.

If Self(s) is ‘all life complete’, why is Rhonda Lenair’s name Self(s) too? And, if all life is a part of Self(s), how is she (Rhonda) differentiated from other physical beings?

SHE (Rhonda and the Self(s) Healing Experience (SHE)), is the physical ‘voice’ that opens and seamlessly connects one’s self to their part of one Self(s)seamless whole presence. She vocally reflects and becomes one Self(s) intelligence that prevails as one Self(s) teaches, Self(s) learns, and Self(s) heals themselves and/or comprehends infinitely what directly applies to their finite physical self.

What does the (s) in parenthesis at the end of the word Self(s) mean?

The parenthesis ( ) represents the finite, physical enclosure that separates life forms in a body or another physical manifestation or embodiment that is framed by any enclosure or boundary that separates one life from another life. The parenthesis represents the interruption in continuity of what’s infinitely enclosed, finitely. (Any life in a body or form that lives in timed life-death cycles and/or embodiment of what is physically bound and separated by thoughts, theory, mind, intellect and/or any material expression that is produced and separated by any boundaries or lines of demarcation, time and space.) The ‘s’ represents what’s infinitely enclosed and the enclosure represents what the infinite is framed in. In short, the parenthesis (  ) represents what’s finite and physical; the ‘s’ represents what’s infinite and non-physical. The non-physical representation and essence of all that lives and is life is contained in all physical life.

What is the Self(s) Healing Experience (SHE)?

SHE is the most direct and quickest way to attain instant enlightenment and the sanctity of inner peace. SHE is legendary for a phenomenon clients have reported experiencing for over 2 ½ decades, whereby their out-of-control behaviors and thoughts have effortlessly disappeared. It is a ‘predictable miracle’ that SHE produces as a byproduct of the experience.

What occurs during a SHE?

SHE is infinite so only possibilities occur – and in multiplicity. SHE transcends all time and space limitations. During any SHE, in-person or via phone, one Self(s) teaches, Self(s) learns, and Self(s) heals seamlessly and simultaneously – and for most instantaneously – and/or attain levels of comprehension as to what contributors were, are, or will affect life’s balance and/or the sanctity of their inner peace. What one is ripe to achieve – no more or less – they will produce and reflect throughout the experience.

How does a SHE in-person differ from a SHE via phone?

The in-person SHE is legendary for the ‘predictable miracle’ that clients report occurring, although every SHE offered – in-person, via phone, or in a group – produces miracles: the entire experience is miraculous!

Do I need to believe in or understand this experience to benefit from it?

No. You need not believe in water for it to reflect your image, and as such with and through this experience you reflect what you’ll hear reflected.

Will SHE conflict with my religion or belief system?

No. SHE ‘only’ reflects you: like water, SHE reflects. SHE is an undefined, dogma-free, judgment-free, label-free, and opinion-free experience. SHE (Self(s) Healing Experience and Rhonda Lenair) begins as nothing and becomes everything but never more or less than what SHE reflects in her presence. Like a mirror or water, SHE (the Self(s) Healing Experience and Rhonda Lenair) reflects and displays your reflected truth verbally: it is not embellished, changed, edited, or altered, as it is not what she sees with her human eyes but what she becomes by being one with your (everyone’s) truth. And because SHE is a judgment-free experience, it represents not partial truth but one whole truth that is. That truth is that all life is born and dies. This truth supersedes and is prior to where all life’s individual minded differences, conflicts, and disagreements are born. All life can agree, despite all minded differences, that any moment in time and any life that lives passes on.

Another way of expressing this is that SHE brings life to a place where all life is equal, where all life can agree on one fact – that it is living, and supersedes all worldly differences (religions, philosophies, beliefs, geography, etc. and other ‘claims of ownership’), and that life can be brought together no matter where any worldly differences separate life at this congruous point of recognition.

What is ‘instant enlightenment’?

It is the center point of where one Self(s)(all life complete) living truth and pure knowledge flows from and to all that lives, and is life. All life equally emits, receives, and conceives infinite eternal truth any life – all life – cause, affect, produce, are produces by, own, and are owned by finitely and infinitely. The light of illumination that glows, in life shows, life what, when, and how to be, balanced and whole physically … One meets their unnamed, unframed time-eternal, enlightened Self(s) that shines a light within all life divine.

How does SHE differ from traditional alcohol or addiction treatment programs?

SHE is a non-medical, template-free experience. SHE does not employ any treatments, therapies, counseling, meetings, and has no basis, foundation, or relation to any mainstream or alternative modality or any of its branches, including hypnosis, NLP, EFT, EMDR, Reiki or any other procedure or modality. SHE is unique and only offered by and through Rhonda Lenair.

How does one classify SHE?

SHE is unclassified. SHE in an ‘infinite’ experience that relates to whatever is finite and SHE reflects … SHE like water reflects as a metaphor. One’s spoken truth, unedited truth that is pure – restores what lies within what blocks inner peace.

What is the objective of the Self(s) Healing Experience?

To attain the sanctity of inner peace, which is the perfect state of fulfillment that presides and lives within all life. Inner peace is perfection …
Not by striving, seeking or doing but being
One moving life truth that is freeing
Life from what’s physically-bound
Non-physically within life is found
And when this state is attained
False versions* of peace cease to remain …

The sanctity of inner peace is the perfect state of pure inner stillness.

*Versions: obstacles that block, obstruct or interfere with peace that are mirages.

What if I do not have an out-of-control problem? Can I still benefit from SHE?

Yes. Because the objective of the experience is to attain ‘instant enlightenment’ and the sanctity of inner peace, all life and any life will produce what is infinite that your Self(s) (all life complete) knows and you’ll hears, whatever insights, foresights, and in hindsight, tell you how to be whole and well. So no, you do not have to have an out-of-control problem to profit from SHE. Out-of-control problems that disappear is the ‘predictable miracle’ that clients report experiencing, but many miracles proliferate through this experience.

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